Wednesday, June 7, 2017

Ethics Part I



Humanity is governed by ethics. As it is said "Ethics is above any law" and therefore, an ethical act is always admired. So what does an ethics means. Different people may have their own perception about ethics. So how can be ethics defined? For me it is an outcome in behavior as a result of good conduct with all involved parties which have been practiced since childhood till present time obeying general norms of social culture, tradition, religion and so on. But here arises a question. What if you are born in a society where corruption prevails, culture where money is worshipped, religion where prosperity from whatever means is always praised and a tradition where wrong act is nourished? For most of them who bypass the rules or make his/her ill intention come true using the loopholes that exist in laws, acts, and rules, you may call it "smartness" but for me it is "arrogancy".
"Character is like a tree and reputation like a shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing", quoted by former US President Abraham Lincoln. So what if you find corruption in behavior? What does it mean in public administration? Simply, it represents to them who are morally degraded. This problem is deeply rooted in bureaucracy which is restricting smooth operation of general administration (eg. lengthening time period of decision making to prove power of holding a position) and economic administration (eg. emptying allocated budget by whatever means available). It prevails in both fully and partly government owned organization.
Unethical conduct has been a trend now. Surfacely, in context of countries like Nepal, there is an urgent need to revoke this type  of ill behavior which is deep rooted in our society, with a slogan "Overriding arrogancy to empower ethical conduct" which can be achieved by promoting two simple action plans and steps – "Speak Out" & "Strict adoption of time schedule".

Tuesday, March 28, 2017

The day I am dead

Yes it's you. You are apart from my hope. And I realized as is today, from this fight in my life. I hate loving you. The world is so selfish. Too much of pain I gain for no reason as I do believe. So, by time with me, your pain  may have transited into chronic fever against me and my attitude.  I am what I am and will be so forever. Love you cause I am bound of our relationship. This so believed humble relation of being wife and husband. And I hope all these clashes of likes and dislikes ends is the day I am dead.

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

Time turning black

Yes, I do hate. Hate so much that I don't want to see her back anywhere around my sight. Too much of this hatred is not just nourished by her attitude. Its because of the creatures feeding her. Why couldn't they all this life care her by themselves. Yes i ever not want these creatures in my periphery. Cause they are the cause of all this hatred.

I want to stay in peace. But the time turned back. Yes, all know everything ends. And why should we show and why can't they. If you know to bow down every time it's always your turn to fulfill all that duties you never want to be a part of. An unwilling force full scene creation. What an artistic creature I am bound to see.

Its the time turning black. Because you are in front of past unpleasant time back again. Too much of fights and tears are ahead. How could I tell anyone, because I am always speechless for no one can listen my words  from inside  the heart.

Thursday, August 11, 2016

With you as I lost hope

If the reality you don't see, I need to say in words that my life is torn apart. Apart from the hope that I sketch in the imagination of future. Really sweet, dreams used to be. The much we know they are fake but we can't predict. The happiness in future thoughts at present may not resemble the exact time. 

The reason for why it happens  is where I expect you to bring the culture with you to lead this life to the direction where the family together foster you left all those I thought you bring with together and did follow those what it used to be in here. I never knew u were just the follower not the leader.

Let it go as it should because I have learn to dry my tears for any cuts in relationship that used to be. Farewell to all those time that catch me up........... thanks ........ love.
With you as I lost hope

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

about bachelor journey



It's good to pay more for some extra. I mean extremely extra. We go through series of events here 2 describe some of what I want.
In purely financial terms this writing exceeds budget finance by xxxxx dollars which are allocated as provided below (TRAIN-RICKSHAW).
A pride feeling nation for pissing off at any corner facing to wall or pole.
Differential treatment for tourists.
Goods as they always write I have not turned to their faces. With all these dislike filled.
Cash mobilization technique or so called money marketing technique.
No matter what all this about throughout the journey I wish to be always with you.
Nature beholds it all. Everyone is characterized by the senses realized.
After 2 years or so it was a return to hope – With all those dreams that I cultured for the period eing When I was so alone. If I knew I would be with you together for the rest o life – How much more dreams should I have added then? I fear that I will be torn apart from all my bonds but still holding your side in believe together we make all those expectations come true.

Sunday, November 1, 2015

In Her Kitchen




To get angry every-time I am not born stubborn. Its mom's love and care toward her baby that makes me cry, yell, fight, throw plates and still smile inside with a glass and mouth full of water as if no one is looking at me.
It's common because it's a ritual in her kitchen as see offer plates full of varieties of dishes and leave no space in the plate to start the meal. Of course half of the plates is filled with rice and every bite of it contains at least two three husks in it and I can see it clearly to shout every-time as I sit for meal.
I don't care it because I have varieties of curries along with rice. She always fries half the same vegetable and boil the other half it increase no of items cooked. Isn't it fun with meal? Whatever, it is the bowl next to the plate that always spreads pleasure smell of clarified butter (ghee) which I hate most and make me burst into tears.  Finally, not the least she is habituated to serve fresh crushed pickle which I care a lot. Every-time I sit for the meal I look at the grinding stone and pop my tongue.
Today we got broad leaf mustard fried, boiled and pickled. Where on earth you can get so much different varieties of mustard in a meal plate at a time? Hail GOD! I am lucky today no lentil bowl today. Now, I am at the table before the plate where something is missing. It seems perfect but when anyone sits for a meal there is always one or the other thing she miss to serve. Fortunately, she never forget to serve rice as it's the main meal served in every plates. Thanks, today she didn't offer glass of water. I don't know when I will be shouting at her.
Damn it, I start my part from my plate as so do all and who cares. Mom is so busy. Not only now, it's every-time. She doesn't love an idle life as its devil's station. And in the meantime everyone can find her busy in the washbasin playing with dishes. Hail again, who on earth gets one idle mother like her?
Finally, my eyes filled with tears and I say to myself oh my lovely mom once I could repeat your part again. Now, who's going to serve all of us in the table? Whatever and however you are we spend half this life so with all those daily shouts and fights, love you how you are.

Monday, September 14, 2015

TO STUDY WITH FUN



It was for a start, with fun. I say Grandpa I can't stick on one thing. So, not to worries as he said there are always alternative ways. You just refresh yourself with my tricks everyday.

Listen there's no boundary in learning. Apply the senses and create your own way to learn.
SEE – keep a close eye upon what's happening, READ  – read again and again, LISTEN – to the teacher, peers, PRACTICE – as until you are sure you can, REALIZE – (Be aware of it) accept failure and rework for success (failure brings a step closer to success)

These are the ways by which he said you learn everything in your life.
SCHEDULED vs. RANDOM - Then how should these ways be implemented.
If you trust the nature and how morning, night, day, season and year is scheduled just organize your schedule as the time moves on. You should be punctual and develop a bond between our study and attitude.
Alternatively, everyone likes change. No everything in this world is scheduled. The rain, cloud, wind are not scheduled or neither they follow any fixed pattern. Their probability and prediction are not accurate every time. So, enjoy your study as the way you love. Just randomize (unscheduled) yourself.

The Five R's - techniques to assist learning process.
REVIEW – basic structure, REVISE – full contents, REMEMBER – the core element, RECALL – periodically, REVISIT – to check update
And at last, be imaginative (does not means to be a dreamer). Being imaginative and developing the nearest scene in the mind increases memory.